Top 7 Tips for Planning a Surprise Proposal
There is no denying that planning a proposal can be a nerve-wracking experience. Making it special, keeping it secret - there are so many things to think about!
Here are some of our top tips for creating a super magical moment whilst still keeping the entire plan a secret (we promise it’s possible!)
Timing is key…
If you know your partner's schedule, it makes planning a surprise much easier. Make sure it’s a time they won’t suspect anything unusual and avoid days where they might be stressed and preoccupied - it’s not the best way to ask the most important question you’ll ever ask.
Is there a significant date that holds a special meaning to you both? A big anniversary or a birthday? BUT you could choose a totally random day and enhance the element of surprise as your partner wouldn’t suspect a thing. We’ve even had some clients propose on THEIR OWN BIRTHDAY - a good way to get your partner dressed up and somewhere special! (But you are giving up your birthday 😂)
Once you’ve decided a day, don’t forget to think about what time on that day your partner would love. Are they a morning sunrise kind of person or would they prefer a sunset? Something to think about.
Location, location, location
You could choose somewhere meaningful. A place that has sentimental value in your relationship like where you first met or your first date. You will both have an emotional connection to that place which makes the proposal even more special.
You could also look at places that make your proposal more visually stunning, like a beach (a nice one!) or at the top of a mountain (if you’re into that of course).
Now this one is key - private vs public. Would your partner prefer something intimate or be the centre of attention? We’re pretty good at making people the centre of attention by the way, just check out the video.
If you need a little inspo for locations in London, don’t worry, we’ve got you. You can find our top 5 outdoor proposal locations in London in this blog.
Ask for help
There is nothing wrong with asking your partners nearest and dearest for their help. They can help with ideas, assist with decorations and photography and they can also distract your partner whilst you prepare. Check out this video where our colleague did a big flash mob for his partner, involving all their friends - AND, her family were waiting in the wings for just afterwards.
But mums, grandparents and friends get excited, so if they are involved in your plans, make sure they’re not acting weird. Sudden changes in behaviour or being overly enthusiastic may give your game away!
The Ring
Find a safe place to make sure your partner will never accidentally come across it. When it comes to the day, plan how you’re going to transport it there - your partner may see the bulge in your trouser pocket (get your minds out the gutter 😏). Maybe use a small bag or ask someone to hold onto it.
It’s all in the disguise
I know we should never lie to our partners, but sometimes a white lie is needed! If there is anything unusual in terms of behaviour, preparations or your outfit, create a plausible cover story - a nice date night is usually a solid option.
The atmosphere
This is where you can get really personal. Why not play your favourite song or display photos of your time together. Set the mood with romantic details like candles and fairy lights.
And make sure you have a photographer or videographer on hand to capture the moment (did we mention we do that too).
Celebrate
It might sound obvious but it’s easy to get caught up in your own little bubble that you forget to put something in place to celebrate with the ones you love.
Your immediate celebration could be a dinner or a small gathering with your nearest and dearest.
Decide together how and when to share the news with everyone else. Some couples prefer to keep it private for a while, while others are eager to announce their engagement right away.